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Asking Amiss

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When God says to ask, he means it and when we come to him he is eager to hear us. However, it is possible for us to err in our approach to prayer and this is made clear in James 4:2,3

 

Ye lust and have not; ye kill and desire to have, and cannot obtain; ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not, ye ask and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

 

The words of our text are a strong indictment against some of God’s professed people. It seems incredibly strange that such strong words would have to be directed to church members. Shouldn’t our fellowship always be filled with sweet words and comfort? Well not always. Sometimes and often too we need to hear words that point us on the right path. Though these words may seem harsh, He, who knows our hearts, points out our sins in love. God speaks to us through his word and also through his ministers.

There are times when the minister is under obligation to God and His people to give the word of reproof

without hesitancy as in Ezek. 3:17-18

“Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the people of Israel; so hear the word I speak and give them warning from me. When I say to a wicked person, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn them or speak out to dissuade them from their evil ways in order to save their life, that wicked person will die for[a] their sin, and I will hold you accountable for their blood.”

So surely, a text like this is not out of place either in our fellowships or in our personal study of God’s word. Before we dive into the message we will glean from this text, let us read the text one more time.

“Ye lust and have not; ye kill and desire to have, and cannot obtain; ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. Ye ask and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.” – James 4:2, 3

 

The prayer God cannot answer

We know from experience that we worship a prayer answering God:

“Call on me and I will answer thee” – Jer. 33:3

“O thou that hearest prayer, unto thee shall all flesh come.” – Ps. 65:2

However, this text makes it clear that there are certain prayers we make that God will not answer. One of which is prayer motivated by selfishness. When we make prayers to God out of a selfish heart, such prayers will not only go unanswered but reflects the extent of sin in our hearts.

Selfish prayers in the bible

When I think of selfish prayers in the bible, I think of Balaam. He probably already knew what God’s will was about the request he received to curse the children of Israel and yet he constantly kept going back to ask. He did this because he longed for the reward and he was eager for gifts. There are many Balaams in our world today. We know what is right, and still, we keep asking for what we know would serve the purpose of exalting us.

Another type of prayer that God despises, is prayer that we engage in for a show. Insincere prayers done to impress others. Prayers with the motive of wanting to be looked at or perceived as righteous. For instance, the Pharisees prayed this kind of prayer.

A third prayer that God will not answer is the prayer to cover sin. The Bible says “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear my prayer.” – Ps. 66:18 

When we harbor sin in our hearts, or when our requests are to promote our sinful propensities, God cannot hear those prayers. 

When we pray with a sinful attitude towards others, not only do we offend God but of course, we do not get his response to those prayers.

Another important point to note is that sometimes our prayers do not get answered because we do not pray them.

“Ye lust and have not; ye kill and desire to have, and cannot obtain; ye fight and war, yet ye have not.”

It is our privilege to come to God in prayer, to bring our needs before him, and as Jesus pointed out to his disciples, “Ye have not, because ye ask not.” God looks upon a prayerless life as spiritual bankruptcy. The reason we are spiritually poor is that we do not daily come to him who is the source of all greatness.   

CONCLUSION

Yes, God loves to hear and answer our prayers, and he is constantly inviting us to talk to him but prayer is not a magic wand that commands God to obey us. There are many prayers, for which we may receive a rebuke. We have seen that prayers motivated by selfishness, fuelled by hidden ulterior motives, or based on unbiblical teachings, God will not and cannot answer. So many professed followers of Christ indeed lead a prayerless life. So many of us labour under burdens that God will make right if only we are willing to humble ourselves and call out to him.

Let us search our hearts as we enter into prayer. Are the motives of our hearts pure, are we holding grudges and fighting wars with others, do we prioritize prayer or participate in it sporadically, do we make prayer our first business of the day? or are we guilty of regression in the most important privilege that comes to us?

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Embracing the Joy of Serving Others: A Christian’s Call to Action

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In a world where self-interest often takes precedence, the call to serve others can seem countercultural. Yet, for Christians, serving others is not just an act of charity but a profound expression of our faith and love for God. This article explores the joy and fulfillment found in serving others and how it aligns with our Christian calling.

 

The Biblical Mandate to Serve

 

Service is deeply rooted in the teachings of the Bible. Jesus, our ultimate example, lived a life of service. In Matthew 20:28, He said, “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Jesus’ actions and words highlight the importance of putting others before ourselves. As His followers, we are called to emulate His example by serving those around us.

 

The Joy of Selflessness

 

While the world often equates joy with personal gain, the Bible teaches that true joy is found in selflessness. Acts 20:35 reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” When we serve others, we shift our focus from our own needs and desires to the well-being of others. This shift not only blesses those we serve but also fills our hearts with a deeper sense of purpose and contentment.

 

Serving as an Act of Worship

 

Service is not just a duty; it is a form of worship. When we serve others, we honor God and acknowledge His sovereignty in our lives. Colossians 3:23-24 encourages us, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” By viewing our acts of service as offerings to God, we elevate their significance and deepen our relationship with Him.

 

Building a Stronger Christian Community

 

Serving others also strengthens our Christian community. Galatians 6:2 instructs, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” When we support and uplift one another, we create a loving and supportive environment where faith can flourish. Acts of service, whether big or small, foster unity and encourage others to serve as well.

 

Practical Ways to Serve

 

Service can take many forms, and there are countless ways to make a difference in the lives of others. Here are a few practical ideas:

  1. Volunteer: Offer your time and talents to local charities, food banks, or church ministries.
  2. Provide Encouragement: Send a thoughtful note, make a phone call, or visit someone who is lonely or going through a tough time.
  3. Share Resources: Donate clothes, food, or money to those in need.
  4. Pray for Others: Lift up the needs of others in prayer, asking God to intervene and bless them.
  5. Mentorship: Guide and support someone who is seeking spiritual growth or facing challenges.

 

Conclusion

 

Embracing the joy of serving others is a vital aspect of our Christian faith. It not only allows us to follow in the footsteps of Jesus but also brings fulfillment and strengthens our communities. By serving with a heart full of love and compassion, we can make a lasting impact on the lives of those around us and draw closer to God.

 

May we all find joy in serving others, knowing that in doing so, we are serving our Lord and Savior. Let us strive to be the hands and feet of Jesus, spreading His love and light in a world that desperately needs it.

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Finding Strength in Faith: How to Navigate Life’s Challenges with God’s Guidance

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Finding faith

Life can be a journey filled with both joy and sorrow, triumphs and trials. As Christians, we are blessed with the assurance that we are never alone in our journey. God’s guidance is always available to us, providing strength and comfort during the most challenging times. This article will explore how to navigate life’s challenges by relying on our faith and seeking God’s wisdom.

 

Embracing God’s Presence

 

One of the most powerful aspects of our faith is the knowledge that God is always with us. Psalm 46:1 reminds us, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” When we feel overwhelmed by life’s difficulties, we can find solace in the fact that God is our constant companion, ready to provide support and guidance.

 

Seeking Strength Through Prayer

 

Prayer is a vital tool for every Christian. It is our direct line of communication with God, allowing us to express our fears, hopes, and gratitude. In Philippians 4:6-7, we are encouraged, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” By turning to God in prayer, we can find peace and strength to face our challenges head-on.

 

Finding Wisdom in Scripture

 

The Bible is a treasure trove of wisdom and encouragement. When facing difficulties, turning to Scripture can provide us with the guidance we need. Proverbs 3:5-6 advises, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” By immersing ourselves in God’s Word, we can gain a deeper understanding of His will and find direction for our lives.

 

Leaning on the Christian Community

 

God has blessed us with a community of believers who can offer support and encouragement. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us of the importance of fellowship: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” By surrounding ourselves with fellow Christians, we can draw strength from their prayers, wisdom, and love.

 

Trusting in God’s Plan

 

Sometimes, life’s challenges can seem insurmountable, and we may struggle to understand why we are facing such difficulties. However, Romans 8:28 offers reassurance: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Trusting in God’s plan, even when it is not clear to us, can help us find the strength to persevere and emerge stronger from our trials.

 

Conclusion

 

Navigating life’s challenges is never easy, but as Christians, we have the incredible gift of God’s guidance and strength. By embracing God’s presence, seeking strength through prayer, finding wisdom in Scripture, leaning on our Christian community, and trusting in God’s plan, we can face any obstacle with confidence and hope. Remember, with God by our side, we are never alone in our journey. 

 

May you find peace and strength in your faith as you navigate the challenges of life, always trusting that God is leading you toward His perfect plan.

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Christian Leadership and Personal Growth

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Christian Leadership

Christian leadership is a very serious vocation that entails spirituality, character development, technical knowledge, and skills. For one to be a leader within the Christian ministry requires an intimate personality with God, Christ-like character, and devoted spiritual development. This article seeks to discuss how to create effective Christian leadership skills, personal development’s critical role in Christian ministry, and other aspects of growth that add up to a comprehensive and vibrant leadership experience.

Developing Effective Leadership Skills for Christian Organizations

  1. Scripture and Prayer
    If there is one thing that can be emphasized here it is the need for any Christian leader to be established on God’s Word. Studying the Bible generates knowledge that equips one with knowledge, direction, and understanding of the divine will of God. Joshua 1:8 proclaims, ‘Tie this Book of the Law to your heart and ‘Study it day and night, making sure that you don’t forget the words therein,’ so that one may be careful to obey all that is written for success to be achieved. Prayer life also helps leaders continually to be in touch with God, responding to prayer for direction and strength.
  2. Exemplifying Christ-like Character
    Religious leaders especially Christian believers ought to ensure that they practice what they preach in every facet of their lives. This includes expressing love, humility, integrity, and delegation of authority where you are leading other people. Philippians 2:5-7 The same is well illustrated here: ‘In your relationships with one another, have the same attitude of mind as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God as something to exploit to his advantage. He made himself nothing taking the form of a bondservant, being made in human likeness.’
  3. Developing Emotional Intelligence
    Self-awareness and social awareness are two main components of emotional intelligence (EI) that help leaders be successful. It is the ability to experience feelings and stimuli, to moderate the feelings within oneself as well as to modulate the feelings within others. Proverbs 15:18 states, ‘He who has no self-control is like a city broken into, its gates shattered to their foundations. ‘ A person with good equanimity can effectively manage problems, mend relationships, and create a healthy environment.

The Role of Personal Development in Christian Ministry

  1. Continuous Learning and Growth
    Personal growth in Christian ministry is a process of continued education and learning throughout one’s lifecycle. There are several ways of acquiring this knowledge including through the classroom, from a tutor, by reading, or by attending a conference or a workshop.  Proverbs 1:5 promotes this endeavor: “Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.”
  2. Spiritual Disciplines
    As for the practice, it is essential for a believer to undertake Christian disciplines of prayers, fasting, worship, and solitude. Such practices assist the leaders to be Spiritual as they seek God and pray so that they may be given guidance and strength to face their tasks in the ministry. Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.”
  3. Building Healthy Relationships
    Relationally, healthy interpersonal relationships are crucial in the growth of individuals as well as in their faith. Just like being part of an assembly gives encouragement, makes one accountable, and gives opportunities to grow.  Hebrews 10:24-25 emphasizes the importance of community: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”

Additional Facets of Growth in Christian Leadership

  1. Mentorship and Discipleship
    Success in the leadership of the church is greatly hinged on the kind of mentorship and discipleship modeled in Christianity. Supervisors who have more experience can share their knowledge, give directions, and set a good example to new/succession leaders. Paul’s relationship with Timothy is a prime example, as seen in 2 Timothy 2:2, “And what you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men, who will be able to teach others also”.
  2. Servant Leadership
    Real leadership is evident in Christians who have the humility to serve instead of dominating. It was the case when Jesus washed the feet of the disciples showing that a leader has to serve the people. Mark 10:45 underscores this principle: “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
  3. Vision and Strategic Planning
    Leaders need to have a vision, which is the capacity to develop a map of the future so that one can set goals and objectives.
    They seek God’s direction and involve others in the process to achieve common goals. Proverbs 29:18 states, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.”

Conclusion

Christian leadership is a constructive and developmental process that demands devotion and discipline focused on spiritual growth. When these leaders know the Word of God, act like Christ, build empathy, and learn to be better people constantly, they can shape and lead people efficiently. Additional qualities such as committing to mentorship, servant leadership, and visionary leadership then complement this benefit by guaranteeing that the leadership equally propels the ministry and glorifies God. In this way, leaders achieve the purpose for which they were created and, in turn, help expand the kingdom of God.

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